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whispers in the  Noise : what a day teaches the soul  Muqadas Dilmeer (social scientist)  17 May ,2025 Dawn arrives with a soft hush, and with it, the world begins to stir. Before my eyes open fully, I am wrapped in the delicate chorus of morning birds. Their melodies seem to float through the sky like prayer—unspoken yet deeply understood. Each chirp feels like a whisper from nature, a reminder that a new day has arrived with silent grace. Somewhere nearby, a soft recitation of a naat hums through a loudspeaker. Its rhythm doesn’t intrude—it settles gently on my heart like a warm hand, soothing the restless thoughts that linger from yesterday. But not all sounds are kind. As the household awakens, so does the noise—siblings bickering, animals scuffling, the blaring drone of a water motor, utensils clashing in the kitchen. It’s as if peace is pushed aside by the demands of the day. Still, I cling to the thought of my university tasks, like holding onto a thread in a storm...
Blog Title: The Day My Sky Fell – A Letter to My Mother Muqadas Dilmeer (social scientist)  17 May ,2025  To My Dearest Ami, There are days when grief becomes a storm, and today, I am standing in its eye. My heart is a garden where your memory still blooms, but the roots ache in the soil of your absence. I’m writing to you, Ami – not because I expect an answer, but because silence has become too loud to bear.It was a winter morning, heavy with clouds and quiet sorrow. I was preparing for my 10th-grade biology exam, unaware that life had already written its cruelest question for me. The sky wept with rain, as if mourning something the world hadn’t yet announced. Then came the first tremor: news of my aunt’s passing. A piece of our world chipped away. But I carried on, as you always taught me. You were the compass of my life, pointing me toward strength, toward duty. I went to give my paper, walking through the storm, not knowing another one was brewing just behind me.When I ret...
Connection Between Adolescence Series And This Boy's life . Muqadas Dilmeer ( social scientist )  April 27, 2025  The Adolescence series and Tobias Wolff’s This Boy’s Life are deeply connected through their exploration of the struggles and complexities of growing up. Both works focus on the emotional and psychological challenges that define adolescence, such as the search for identity, the desire for freedom, and the struggle against authority. In This Boy’s Life, Toby faces a difficult life filled with instability and emotional turmoil. His constant attempts to reinvent himself, often through lying or dreaming of a better future, reflect a deep need to escape his harsh reality. Similarly, the characters in the Adolescence series often grapple with feelings of loneliness, confusion, and the pressure to meet expectations they barely understand. In both works, adolescence is portrayed as a difficult, often painful journey toward self-understanding. A major connection between the...
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Saman Hasnain Shah  Muqadas Dilmeer ( social scientist )  March 25,2025  Saman Hasnain Shah, an American-Pakistani beauty queen, has chronicled her journey in the memoir titled "Mrs. Pakistan World." Crowned Mrs. Pakistan World in 2008 in Toronto, Canada, Shah represented Pakistan in international pageants such as Mrs. World and Mrs. Globe, securing a total of six international titles—a record achievement for a Pakistani beauty queen.  Her memoir delves into her experiences navigating the beauty pageant circuit as a married woman, aiming to challenge and redefine global perceptions of Pakistani women. Shah emphasizes that her story addresses themes of relationships, struggles, and successes, offering insights into the multifaceted roles of Pakistani women.  After spending a decade in the United States, Shah returned to Pakistan to manage her family's business. Her book, "Mrs. Pakistan World," is available for purchase through various platforms, including Vanguar...
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Her story  Muqadad Dilmeer (social scientist)  March 6,2025 Fakhra Younus' story is a powerful testament to the idea that beauty is not just about physical appearance but about inner strength, resilience, and the ability to rise above adversity. Before the acid attack in 2000, she was admired for her physical beauty as a dancer in Karachi, but after her face was brutally disfigured, she was abandoned by society and left to suffer in silence. However, Fakhra refused to let her scars define her. She moved to Italy, where she underwent 39 reconstructive surgeries in an attempt to regain her physical features. But beyond the surgeries, her real transformation lay in her unwavering spirit to survive, fight, and advocate for justice. Her journey is deeply connected to the concept of true beauty. In a world obsessed with external beauty, Fakhra’s life challenges the conventional definition. Beauty is often associated with flawless skin, perfect features, and a radiant smile, but her ...
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Beauty secrets   Muqadas Dilmeer (social scientist)  March 2,2025 Memoir: A lesson in beauty and Resilience  I have always been passionate about skincare, fascinated by the idea of achieving radiant, flawless skin. When my brother’s wedding was around the corner, I saw it as the perfect occasion to indulge in a facial, believing it would give me the ultimate glow for the celebrations. Without much thought, I eagerly booked an appointment, unaware of the nightmare that awaited me. That night, a burning sensation crept over my face, intensifying as the hours passed.  By morning, my reflection in the mirror was unrecognizable—scarred with large, painful spots. The smooth complexion I had taken for granted was now marred by inflammation, and panic surged through me. But the worst part wasn’t just the physical damage; it was the reactions of those around me.  My brother’s mehndi ceremony, a day meant for joy and festivity, became a moment of discomfort for me. A...

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 Beauty secrets  Muqadad Dilmeer (social scientist)  March 1 , 2025  Beauty secrets for a Radiant Glow  Welcome to Beauty secrets blog, your ultimate destination for beauty secrets that help you look and feel your best!  Beauty is more than just makeup_ it's about nourishing your skin,  hair and body from within. Wether you are looking for natural remedies, or expert tips , you're in the right place.  Everyone desires healthy, glowing skin and lustrous hairs,  but true beauty goes beyond makeup and skincare products. It's about a combination of good habits , a healthy lifestyle, and self -care routines that enhance your natural beauty. Here are some timeless beauty secrets to help you look and feel Your best .  Hydration is key : One of the simplest yet most effective beauty secret is staying hydrated. Drinking plenty of water hepls flush out toxins , keeping your skin clear and supple. Hydration also prevents premature aging and gives y...